What is Thirst?!?
I never imagined I'd still be single at this point in time, 20 years ago I figured at least by now I would have been married for several years, or maybe married for ten, divorced working on my second husband or just in a serious relationship. Well, I am in a relationship (not sure how serious we are) my longest actually EVER, four years is a record for me, my past situations have been no more than two years, then i'll take two, maybe three years to get over the damage I allowed someone else's ego to inflict upon my spirit, so, when I say 4 years is a long time, I mean I am in territory unfamiliar to me. My flesh is looking for definitions...its expecting labels when it comes to this situation and this MAN (that just sat down in front of me one day) that I am motivated by, intrigued to a point to where I am stepping into situations that frighten me, I want to grow with him, I desire to continue to be challenged by him, and yet he is looking for nothing exclusive, which is probably why my focus is still on building my brand, expanding my territory, relinquishing responsibilities within my organization to my SUN, I have made my CAREER...my BAE! Now, I am sure that this is a test from the universe to see if I am patient(the second definition, able to persevere calmly, especially when faced with difficulties) and willing to wait for that which has been given to me in a vision. I am willing to wait, and I am sure he is willing to wait on me.
A punk move a lot of women would say, but I'd rather wait on the Universe to move on my behalf than to jump off the ledge and end up with another broken egg! You get what I'm saying? I am saying that I am not in a RUSH, my desires for a marriage aren't the image of what's being put out there, I don't seek possession nor do I desire to own my mate, nor place expectations upon them that only GOD can provide, I desire a life partner, Let's walk this journey together.
Which brings me to the subject at hand; What is Thirst?!?
I was perusing my facebook newsfeed earlier this morning and saw a post where a young lady's husband had been hit on at the grocery store. Now her post stated paraphrased of course, "I know my husband is handsome but damn how thirsty are you?" now apparently the sales person had written on the cup of coffee "Hey Handsome"? I was really confused for a moment, laughed then logged off. I am not sure what is going in the world today with people, However, my Concern is WOMEN, right now for this letter. So, I am hoping, I can make sense of this by expressing myself here; Why would you say that this woman was thirsty? Because she spoke to your husband? Are women not able to be women anymore, are we not able to be ladies anymore? Last time I look it was "ladylike" "polite" "attractive" and "out right sexy" when you encountered a women who was just filled with internal Beauty and those women, speak to everyone, and attempt to make everyone around them feel good about themselves! or so I thought. I am really confused because as a woman, I would think that ANY woman would desire to have a husband or mate that other women found attractive, am I wrong? I don't want to walk around with no damn sea monster for a husband, would you? (Sidebar: I have found that the most attractive men that I have dated, that I am friends with have the greatest personalities, and have wonderful spirits...they tend to treat all women the same, friends, girlfriends, lovers and wives...all women are treat with respect, if they are physically attractive, add a splash of southern gentlemen traits into the mix and see how quick you wanna drop yo pants, don't do it, just imagine.)
So, ladies lets stop this right here and right now, You should find pleasure in the fact that other women find your husband/mate/whatever, handsome and he came home to you! What about the women who's husband accept those advances and opt for trying the new? What if you'd never seen the Cup? What I am saying is, you should take care of your husband/mate, your husband/mate should look like he is happy, because, truth me told, women don't want men who look thrown away, men who look thrown away have actually been thrown away by another woman that didn't want him, that wanted the man who was happy; not knowing he had a wife at home who loved him enough to not stress him, cooked, cleaned, laughed, let him rule the world so that she could maintain her queendom. Women all looking for men who are sure of themselves or at least the ones who pretend very well.
Stop calling people names, being bully's with your words because people aren't hateful and ugly like you! Stop saying/thinking someone wants what you have, Hell, at the end of the day, God created us to be a standard, so if someone does not desire the light you are putting out, then you have nothing of value!
Marinate on that, while you calling somebody thirsty...
#southerngirlantics #queenmoveallovertheboard #weruninpacks
A punk move a lot of women would say, but I'd rather wait on the Universe to move on my behalf than to jump off the ledge and end up with another broken egg! You get what I'm saying? I am saying that I am not in a RUSH, my desires for a marriage aren't the image of what's being put out there, I don't seek possession nor do I desire to own my mate, nor place expectations upon them that only GOD can provide, I desire a life partner, Let's walk this journey together.
Which brings me to the subject at hand; What is Thirst?!?
I was perusing my facebook newsfeed earlier this morning and saw a post where a young lady's husband had been hit on at the grocery store. Now her post stated paraphrased of course, "I know my husband is handsome but damn how thirsty are you?" now apparently the sales person had written on the cup of coffee "Hey Handsome"? I was really confused for a moment, laughed then logged off. I am not sure what is going in the world today with people, However, my Concern is WOMEN, right now for this letter. So, I am hoping, I can make sense of this by expressing myself here; Why would you say that this woman was thirsty? Because she spoke to your husband? Are women not able to be women anymore, are we not able to be ladies anymore? Last time I look it was "ladylike" "polite" "attractive" and "out right sexy" when you encountered a women who was just filled with internal Beauty and those women, speak to everyone, and attempt to make everyone around them feel good about themselves! or so I thought. I am really confused because as a woman, I would think that ANY woman would desire to have a husband or mate that other women found attractive, am I wrong? I don't want to walk around with no damn sea monster for a husband, would you? (Sidebar: I have found that the most attractive men that I have dated, that I am friends with have the greatest personalities, and have wonderful spirits...they tend to treat all women the same, friends, girlfriends, lovers and wives...all women are treat with respect, if they are physically attractive, add a splash of southern gentlemen traits into the mix and see how quick you wanna drop yo pants, don't do it, just imagine.)
So, ladies lets stop this right here and right now, You should find pleasure in the fact that other women find your husband/mate/whatever, handsome and he came home to you! What about the women who's husband accept those advances and opt for trying the new? What if you'd never seen the Cup? What I am saying is, you should take care of your husband/mate, your husband/mate should look like he is happy, because, truth me told, women don't want men who look thrown away, men who look thrown away have actually been thrown away by another woman that didn't want him, that wanted the man who was happy; not knowing he had a wife at home who loved him enough to not stress him, cooked, cleaned, laughed, let him rule the world so that she could maintain her queendom. Women all looking for men who are sure of themselves or at least the ones who pretend very well.
Stop calling people names, being bully's with your words because people aren't hateful and ugly like you! Stop saying/thinking someone wants what you have, Hell, at the end of the day, God created us to be a standard, so if someone does not desire the light you are putting out, then you have nothing of value!
Marinate on that, while you calling somebody thirsty...
#southerngirlantics #queenmoveallovertheboard #weruninpacks
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