ALL OVER THE PLACE...yes, you can say that right now!
So I am in the process of a Forgiveness pact. This is a thirty day transition where you allow yourself to recall the things of yesterday, the things that made you cry, harm you in some way or just made you laugh...its a beautiful cycle of recall. I love where I am right now however, some things are really harder to think about than others and the things I've forgotten just excites my soul. But in forgiveness I realized the we as the victims often what to hear an apology,or hear that the other party was wrong without even understanding why the situation ended or resulted in you getting hurt. I can recall a time where I really didnt care I enjoyed playing the victim however, when you play the victim you end up never become the Offender just the Offendent, whats the fun in that. I will say today, regardless of when the apology comes Ill take my place and ask the appropriate questions to avoid having my feelings hurt. Sometimes we are so eager to get to the forgiveness stage that we fail to take accountability for our parts. Like doing something outside of God's Will, all of that plays into everyday life. I am the first to say that I do not get it right everyday, but when I get it right that day stands out less that the days I got it wrong. Why? because we are conditioned to dwell on that which hurts and harm. So, I say lets dwell on making us better. Stop worrying about other people when you become the change you want to see, your environment will follow suit...
Remember Love is a Choice... Choose Life at all times.
I Love you like God loves me... Unconditionally!
So I am in the process of a Forgiveness pact. This is a thirty day transition where you allow yourself to recall the things of yesterday, the things that made you cry, harm you in some way or just made you laugh...its a beautiful cycle of recall. I love where I am right now however, some things are really harder to think about than others and the things I've forgotten just excites my soul. But in forgiveness I realized the we as the victims often what to hear an apology,or hear that the other party was wrong without even understanding why the situation ended or resulted in you getting hurt. I can recall a time where I really didnt care I enjoyed playing the victim however, when you play the victim you end up never become the Offender just the Offendent, whats the fun in that. I will say today, regardless of when the apology comes Ill take my place and ask the appropriate questions to avoid having my feelings hurt. Sometimes we are so eager to get to the forgiveness stage that we fail to take accountability for our parts. Like doing something outside of God's Will, all of that plays into everyday life. I am the first to say that I do not get it right everyday, but when I get it right that day stands out less that the days I got it wrong. Why? because we are conditioned to dwell on that which hurts and harm. So, I say lets dwell on making us better. Stop worrying about other people when you become the change you want to see, your environment will follow suit...
Remember Love is a Choice... Choose Life at all times.
I Love you like God loves me... Unconditionally!
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